4.4 How do I need to behave towards others to succeed?
The social worlds of children are challenging and complex. Each day at home, children are expected to learn and follow family rules, interact with their parents and siblings in an appropriate manner, and generally contribute to family processes that support emotional health and safety. Similarly, children must negotiate their way through the school day, adhering to classroom rules, maintaining and making new friendships, and seeking out situations that allow them to thrive as members of the school community (Wentzel, 2002).
The student who does not know how (or who lacks the appropriate skills) to behave appropriately and responsibly is at increased risk for academic failure.  Educators and researchers have consistently demonstrated the importance of pro-social behavior and skills to successful learning (O'Sullivan, Guilford, & de Mille, 1965; Wentzel, 1989). This is particularly true for students with disabilities, who as a group, tend to display a greater proportion of social and/or behavioral difficulties (Gresham & MacMillan, 1997). The presence of pro-social behaviors (e.g., cooperation, communication, rule following) and the absence of problem or maladaptive behaviors (e.g., hitting, poor attention, over-activity) are obvious components of a MACM.
As described earlier in this paper, social ability has been conceptualized to consist of 2 primary dimensions: “the ability to decode social information, including the ability to understand nonverbal cues and make accurate social inferences, and the ability to behave adaptively and effectively in social situations” (Snow et al., 1996, p. 278).  These two dimensions roughly correspond to the cognitive (internal mental processes) and behavioral (manifest observable behaviors) components of social functioning.  Each broad social dimension is treated separately below.